{"id":1023,"date":"2026-03-16T20:56:44","date_gmt":"2026-03-16T13:56:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chuyendoisong.com.vn\/?p=1023"},"modified":"2026-03-16T20:56:44","modified_gmt":"2026-03-16T13:56:44","slug":"phu-nu-o-tuoi-nao-khat-khao-dan-ong-nhat-cau-tra-loi-cua-tam-ly-hoc-khien-ai-cung-bat-ngo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chuyendoisong.com.vn\/?p=1023","title":{"rendered":"Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u1edf tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0o \u2018kh:\u00e1t kh:ao \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng\u2019 nh\u1ea5t? C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc khi\u1ebfn ai c\u0169ng b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng cho r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng theo \u0111u\u1ed5i s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p, c\u00f2n ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ki\u1ebfm t\u00ecm t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Nh\u01b0ng nhu c\u1ea7u v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n. N\u00f3 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd qua t\u1eebng giai \u0111o\u1ea1n, ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1t khao s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m b\u00ean trong.<\/p>\n

1. T\u1eeb 16 \u0111\u1ebfn 22 tu\u1ed5i: T\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u1ea3n chi\u1ebfu gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"t\u00e2m<\/p>\n

Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00e1t khao \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t tu\u1ef3 v\u00e0o t\u1eebng giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi (\u1ea2nh minh ho\u1ea1)<\/em><\/p>\n

\u1ede giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb, t\u1eeb 16 \u0111\u1ebfn 22, c\u00e1c c\u00f4 g\u00e1i b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 v\u00e0 rung \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eddi. H\u1ecd tin v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u0129nh c\u1eedu, n\u01a1i ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, xu\u1ea5t th\u00e2n hay kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ecba l\u00fd \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4 v\u1ebd b\u1edfi ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n v\u00e0 phim \u1ea3nh, h\u1ecd t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t \u201cho\u00e0ng t\u1eed ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o\u201d, ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 h\u1ecd v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e2m l\u00fd, nhu c\u1ea7u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u1edf tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng m\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb khao kh\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eddi ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng: khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau, h\u1ecd m\u1edbi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb. \u0110\u1ee9ng gi\u1eefa l\u1eb1n ranh c\u1ee7a tu\u1ed5i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

2. T\u1eeb 30 \u0111\u1ebfn 35 tu\u1ed5i: C\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ef1a thay v\u00ec m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"t\u00e2m<\/p>\n

(\u1ea2nh minh ho\u1ea1)<\/em><\/p>\n

B\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i 30, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00f9 qu\u00e1ng. Sau nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1, h\u1ecd hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c. Giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y, h\u1ecd t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u.<\/p>\n

Theo nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc Erik Erikson, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn gi\u1eefa \u201cs\u1ef1 sinh s\u1ea3n\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cs\u1ef1 tr\u00ec tr\u1ec7\u201d. \u201cSinh s\u1ea3n\u201d \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 mang ngh\u0129a \u0111en l\u00e0 sinh con, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a l\u00e2u d\u00e0i nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ed5 \u1ea5m b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, h\u1ecd d\u1ec5 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng.<\/p>\n

Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef tu\u1ed5i 30 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 \u00e1p l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi gian, s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng th\u00f4i th\u00fac. H\u1ecd c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chi\u1ec1u chu\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 c\u00f4ng ch\u00faa, m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng g\u00e1nh v\u00e1c tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t m\u00e1i \u1ea5m b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0ng y\u00ean \u1ed5n. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

3. T\u1eeb 55 \u0111\u1ebfn 60 tu\u1ed5i: T\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 b\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"t\u00e2m<\/p>\n

(\u1ea2nh minh ho\u1ea1)<\/em><\/p>\n

Khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i x\u1ebf chi\u1ec1u, sau nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn cho c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng tr\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi: s\u1ef1 tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac. Con c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 qua \u0111\u1eddi, v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac g\u00e1c l\u1ea1i. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean y\u00ean t\u0129nh \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi h\u1ecfi th\u0103m \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee7 l\u00e0m h\u1ecd \u1ea5m l\u00f2ng.<\/p>\n

\u1ede \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u1ed3ng ch\u00e1y. \u0110i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n tri k\u1ef7, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1ed3i b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh, l\u1eafng nghe h\u1ecd k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n c\u0169 v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau \u00f4n l\u1ea1i k\u00fd \u1ee9c thanh xu\u00e2n. S\u1ef1 l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n quan tr\u1ecdng b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n, \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh v\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n

Suy cho c\u00f9ng, \u1edf m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i, nhu c\u1ea7u v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3n chi\u1ebfu kh\u00e1t khao th\u1eb3m s\u00e2u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef: tu\u1ed5i 20 mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau, tu\u1ed5i 30 mu\u1ed1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn v\u00e0 tu\u1ed5i 60 ch\u1ec9 mong \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe.<\/p>\n

Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch y\u00eau m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ea7y, d\u00f9 c\u00f3 ai \u1edf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh hay kh\u00f4ng. \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p r\u1ea5t ri\u00eang, r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng cho r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng theo \u0111u\u1ed5i s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p, c\u00f2n ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ki\u1ebfm t\u00ecm t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Nh\u01b0ng nhu c\u1ea7u v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n. N\u00f3 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd qua t\u1eebng giai \u0111o\u1ea1n, ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1t khao s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m b\u00ean trong. 1. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1024,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1023","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-chua-phan-loai"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/chuyendoisong.com.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1023","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/chuyendoisong.com.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/chuyendoisong.com.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chuyendoisong.com.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chuyendoisong.com.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1023"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/chuyendoisong.com.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1023\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1025,"href":"https:\/\/chuyendoisong.com.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1023\/revisions\/1025"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chuyendoisong.com.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1024"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/chuyendoisong.com.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1023"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chuyendoisong.com.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1023"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chuyendoisong.com.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1023"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}