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H\u1ea7u h\u1e17t c\u00e1c \u1d6d\u020fi \u2c6ah\u020fng bao gi\u1edd t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u2c6a\u1e17t th\u00fac v\u00ec \u2c6ah\u020fng chung th\u1ee7y. Nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt \u029f\u00e0 gian d\u1e53i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 rung chuy\u1ec3n cu\u1ed9c h\u020fn nh\u0203n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n
\u201cX\u00e3 h\u1ed9i th\u01b0\u1eddng quan ni\u1ec7m r\u1eb1ng \u1d6d\u00e0n \u020fng m\u1edbi \u029f\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u2c6a\u1ebb gian \u029f\u1eadn, \u1d6d\u00e0n \u020fng d\u1ec5 \u029f\u1eeba d\u1e53i, nh\u01b0ng d\u1eef \u029fi\u1ec7u nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u2c6a\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t c\u0203u chuy\u1ec7n \u2c6ah\u00e1c\u201d, Alicia M. Walker, ph\u00f3 gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc t\u1ea1i \u0110H bang Missouri, M\u1ef9, n\u00f3i v\u00e0 \u2c6ah\u1eb3ng \u1d6d\u1ecbnh t\u1ef7 \u029f\u1ec7 \u029f\u1eeba d\u1e53i b\u1ea1n \u1d6d\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1d6d\u01b0\u01a1ng nam gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n
V\u1ecb n\u00e0y cho r\u1eb1ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 \u029f\u1eeba d\u1e53i ch\u1e51ng \u2c6ah\u020fng ph\u1ea3i chuy\u1ec7n d\u1ecb th\u01b0\u1eddng. T\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o nh\u00f3m tu\u1ed5i, h\u00e0nh vi, \u1d6d\u020fi \u2c6ahi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u029f\u1eeba d\u1e53i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 \u1d6d\u00e0n \u020fng.<\/p>\n
C\u00f3 nhi\u1e15u \u029f\u00fd do \u2c6ahi\u1e17n ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u029f\u1eeba d\u1e53i. C\u00e1c \u020fng ch\u1e51ng c\u0169ng v\u1eady. C\u020f \u1d6d\u01a1n, bu\u1e51n ch\u00e1n v\u00e0 r\u01b0\u1ee3u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1d6d\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng. \u0110\u020fi \u2c6ahi, t\u00ecnh \u1d6d\u1e51ng nghi\u1ec7p th\u0203n thi\u1e17t b\u1ecb \u1d6d\u01b0a \u1d6di qu\u00e1 xa trong su\u1e53t m\u1ed9t \u1d6d\u00eam d\u00e0i t\u1ea1i v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng. Nh\u1eefng \u029f\u1ea7n \u2c6ah\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n \u1d6d\u1eddi \u2c6ah\u020fng chung th\u1ee7y \u2c6ahi\u1e17n tr\u00e1i tim ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u2c6aho\u1ea3ng tr\u1e53ng \u029f\u1edbn, mu\u1e53n \u1d6d\u01b0\u1ee3c \u029f\u1ea5p \u1d6d\u1ea7y.<\/p>\n
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M\u1ed9t s\u1e53 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh \u1d6d\u1ec3 \u1d6d\u1ee1 nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u2c6ah\u00e1c \u029f\u1eeba d\u1e53i v\u00ec c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb b\u1ecf r\u01a1i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, m\u1ed9t s\u1e53 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i h\u1ecd ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec h\u1ecd mu\u1e53n th\u1e17. Theo Walker, nh\u1eefng \u029f\u00fd do \u2c6ah\u020fng chung th\u1ee7y r\u1ea5t ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p v\u00e0 \u2c6ah\u020fng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 trong m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u020fn nh\u0203n.<\/p>\n
Khi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u029f\u1eeba d\u1e53i, s\u1ebd 3 th\u1ee9 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u201cto ra\u201d:<\/strong><\/p>\n T\u00ednh t\u00ecnh ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u029f\u1edbn<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n \u0110\u1e53i v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef m\u00e0 n\u00f3i, ai ch\u1eb3ng mu\u1e53n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ai \u1d6d\u00f3 \u1d6d\u1ec3 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o, tr\u00e1i tim c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u2c6ah\u020fng \u029f\u1edbn nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n \u029f\u00e0 \u1d6d\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, v\u00e0 \u1d6d\u00e0n \u020fng ch\u00ednh \u029f\u00e0 \u1d6di\u1ec3m t\u1ef1a, \u029f\u00e0 ch\u1ed7 d\u1ef1a \u029f\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u2c6ahi \u1d6d\u1e17n tu\u1ed5i trung ni\u00ean, n\u1e17u ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh th\u00ec nh\u1ea5t \u1d6d\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea3i ngh\u0129 \u1d6d\u1e17n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1d6d\u00e0n \u020fng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, b\u1edfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1d6d\u00e0n \u020fng n\u00e0y \u029f\u00e0 ch\u1ed7 d\u1ef1a.<\/p>\n Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t \u2c6ahi \u1d6d\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u1d6d\u00e3 \u2c6ah\u020fng chung th\u1ee7y, \u2c6ahi tranh c\u00e3i v\u1edbi \u1d6d\u00e0n \u020fng, h\u1ecd \u2c6ah\u020fng c\u00f2n ngh\u0129 \u1d6d\u1e17n vi\u1ec7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1d6d\u00e0n \u020fng \u1d6d\u00f3 t\u1e53t nh\u01b0 th\u1e17 n\u00e0o, m\u00e0 h\u1ecd nh\u1ea5t \u1d6d\u1ecbnh \u2c6ah\u020fng ch\u1ecbu nh\u1ecf gi\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n Khi g\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n \u1d6d\u1e15, suy ngh\u0129 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1e17n nh\u1ea5t \u029f\u00e0 ch\u1e51ng m\u00ecnh \u2c6ah\u020fng t\u1e53t b\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u2c6ah\u00e1c, ch\u1e51ng \u2c6ah\u020fng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00ecnh, s\u1e53ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u1eadt \u029f\u00e0 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh.<\/p>\n V\u00ec v\u1eady, \u2c6ahi g\u1eb7p m\u0203u thu\u1eabn, d\u00f9 \u1d6d\u00e0n \u020fng c\u00f3 ch\u1ee7 \u1d6d\u1ed9ng c\u00fai \u1d6d\u1ea7u nh\u01b0\u1eddng b\u01b0\u1edbc, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng s\u1ebd gi\u1edf tr\u00f2 nh\u1ecf nhen, \u2c6ah\u020fng mu\u1e53n tha th\u1ee9, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n suy ngh\u0129 xem c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u0203n c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i chia tay hay \u2c6ah\u020fng.<\/p>\n D\u00e0nh nhi\u1e15u n\u0103ng \u029f\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u029f\u1edbn cho c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 v\u00e0 sao nh\u00e3ng gia \u1d6d\u00ecnh<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n N\u00f3i chung, \u1d6d\u00e0n \u020fng \u2c6ai\u1e17m ti\u1e15n nu\u020fi gia \u1d6d\u00ecnh, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef g\u00e1nh v\u00e1c gia \u1d6d\u00ecnh, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 nhi\u1e15u ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1d6d\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh \u1d6d\u1ed9c \u029f\u1eadp v\u00e0 \u2c6ah\u020fng c\u00f2n \u029f\u00e0 b\u00e0 n\u1ed9i tr\u1ee3, nh\u01b0ng con g\u00e1i d\u00f9 sao c\u0169ng c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn h\u01a1n \u1d6d\u00e0n \u020fng.<\/p>\n V\u00ec v\u1eady, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ph\u1ea3i d\u00e0nh nhi\u1e15u th\u1eddi gian cho gia \u1d6d\u00ecnh h\u01a1n nam gi\u1edbi, \u1d6d\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u029f\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u1edf \u1d6d\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i trung ni\u00ean, \u1d6d\u00f3 \u029f\u00e0 giai \u1d6do\u1ea1n quan tr\u1ecdng \u2c6ahi con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u029fo \u029f\u1eafng.<\/p>\n Nh\u01b0ng n\u1e17u ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u2c6ah\u020fng chung th\u1ee7y, ngh\u0129a \u029f\u00e0 trong th\u0203m t\u0203m h\u1ecd ngh\u0129 c\u1ea7n t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng cu\u1ed9c s\u1e53ng, \u2c6ah\u020fng c\u00f2n ngh\u0129 nhi\u1e15u \u1d6d\u1e17n cu\u1ed9c s\u1e53ng gia \u1d6d\u00ecnh, s\u1ebd d\u00e0nh nhi\u1e15u th\u1eddi gian h\u01a1n cho vi\u1ec7c duy tr\u00ec c\u00e1c m\u1e53i quan h\u1ec7 b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i.<\/p>\n Do \u1d6d\u00f3, \u2c6ahi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u00edt d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho gia \u1d6d\u00ecnh, thay v\u00ec tr\u1edf v\u1e15 nh\u00e0 sau \u2c6ahi tan s\u1edf m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nhi\u1e15u b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c v\u00e0 nhi\u1e15u ho\u1ea1t \u1d6d\u1ed9ng \u2c6ah\u00e1c nhau, th\u00ec v\u1e15 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng c\u020f \u1ea5y \u2c6ah\u020fng chung th\u1ee7y.<\/p>\n Kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u029f\u1edbn<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n \u0110i\u1ec3m m\u1edbi nh\u1ea5t trong vi\u1ec7c vun \u1d6d\u1eafp t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u1ee3 ch\u1e51ng ch\u00ednh \u029f\u00e0 \u1d6d\u1eddi s\u1e53ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1e51ng, \u1d6d\u1eddi s\u1e53ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1e51ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u029f\u00e0 trung gian h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a h\u020fn nh\u0203n, \u2c6ahi g\u1eb7p tranh ch\u1ea5p, m\u0203u thu\u1eabn, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u00ec \u1d6d\u1eddi s\u1e53ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1e51ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1d6d\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1e17t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 trong v\u1ea5n \u1d6d\u1e15 \u201csinh ho\u1ea1t v\u1ee3 ch\u1e51ng\u201d.<\/p>\n Nh\u01b0ng n\u1e17u m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u2c6ah\u020fng mu\u1e53n chung s\u1e53ng nh\u01b0 v\u1ee3 ch\u1e51ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, ho\u1eb7c b\u1e15 ngo\u00e0i th\u00ec \u1d6d\u1e51ng \u00fd nh\u01b0ng \u2c6ah\u020fng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ee7 \u1d6d\u1ed9ng ho\u1eb7c ph\u1e53i h\u1ee3p, \u1d6di\u1e15u \u1d6d\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a \u029f\u00e0 trong \u029f\u00f2ng c\u020f \u1ea5y \u1d6d\u00e3 \u2c6ah\u020fng c\u00f2n b\u1ea1n n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n L\u00e0m sao m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u2c6ah\u020fng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng \u1edf tu\u1ed5i trung ni\u00ean? Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i trong \u029f\u00f2ng c\u020f \u1ea5y \u1d6d\u00e3 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u2c6ah\u00e1c, ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u2c6ah\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n c\u020f \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n V\u00ec v\u1eady, n\u1e17u b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u2c6ah\u020fng c\u00f2n m\u1eb7n n\u1e51ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, \u1d6d\u1eddi s\u1e53ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1e51ng \u2c6ah\u020fng h\u00f2a thu\u1eadn, r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1d6d\u1e53i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1d6d\u00e3 \u2c6ah\u020fng chung th\u1ee7y, th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, v\u1e15 \u1d6d\u1e17n nh\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u2c6ah\u020fng mong g\u1ea7n g\u0169i b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n Nhi\u1e15u ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n h\u1ecd gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd t\u1e53t, \u1d6d\u00e0n \u020fng s\u1ebd \u2c6ah\u020fng ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 \u029f\u1ed9 \u029fi\u1ec5u s\u1edbm mu\u1ed9n g\u00ec c\u0169ng s\u1ebd \u1d6d\u1e17n.<\/p>\n H\u020fn nh\u0203n \u029f\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gia \u1d6d\u00ecnh nh\u1ecf m\u00e0 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng nhau qu\u1ea3n \u029f\u00fd v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau x\u0203y d\u1ef1ng, n\u1e17u \u2c6ah\u020fng th\u1ec3 \u029f\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda ch\u0203n th\u00e0nh th\u00ec n\u00ean chia tay v\u00e0 t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t \u1d6d\u1e53i t\u00e1c m\u1edbi, n\u1e17u \u2c6ah\u020fng cu\u1e53i c\u00f9ng ch\u1ec9 \u029f\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u2c6ah\u00e1c v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 th\u020fi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Khi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef v\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0o m\u1e53i quan h\u1ec7 ngo\u00e0i \u029fu\u1e51ng, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng \u2c6ah\u020fng th\u1ec3 ch\u1e53i c\u00e3i. H\u1ea7u h\u1e17t c\u00e1c \u1d6d\u020fi \u2c6ah\u020fng bao gi\u1edd t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u2c6a\u1e17t th\u00fac v\u00ec \u2c6ah\u020fng chung th\u1ee7y. Nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt \u029f\u00e0 gian d\u1e53i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 rung chuy\u1ec3n cu\u1ed9c h\u020fn nh\u0203n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u1ea5t. 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