Than phi\u1ec1n l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 r\u1ea5t ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn khi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 \u00fd. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch x\u1ea3 stress, n\u00f3i ra cho nh\u1eb9 l\u00f2ng. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3i c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u, t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u00e0ng n\u1eb7ng, b\u1edfi l\u1eddi n\u00f3i ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i s\u1ebd nu\u00f4i l\u1edbn ch\u00ednh c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n Trong g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0110\u00f4ng, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 giao ti\u1ebfp m\u00e0 c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m. Khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean than v\u00e3n, h\u1ecd v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c t\u1eadp trung to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0o c\u00e1i thi\u1ebfu, c\u00e1i sai, c\u00e1i b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng. D\u00f2ng suy ngh\u0129 \u1ea5y k\u00e9o d\u00e0i s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd kh\u00f3 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i, c\u0169ng kh\u00f3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111ang c\u00f3.<\/p>\n V\u1ec1 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i, th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0y l\u00e0m hao ph\u00fac \u1edf hai t\u1ea7ng. Th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, t\u1ef1 b\u00e0o m\u00f2n tinh th\u1ea7n, khi\u1ebfn n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng s\u1ed1ng suy gi\u1ea3m. Th\u1ee9 hai, khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c d\u1ea7n m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi khi ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 c\u0169ng \u00e2m th\u1ea7m r\u1eddi \u0111i. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea5u, m\u00e0 v\u00ec n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea9y r\u1ea5t m\u1ea1nh.<\/p>\n 2. Hay so s\u00e1nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c<\/strong><\/p>\n So s\u00e1nh l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, nh\u01b0ng khi n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y, ph\u00fac kh\u00ed b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u r\u00f2 r\u1ec9 l\u00fac n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng hay. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng nh\u00ecn sang cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111o l\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, t\u1eeb ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, v\u1ecb tr\u00ed, gia \u0111\u00ecnh cho t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf.<\/p>\n V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u1eb1m \u1edf ch\u1ed7, s\u1ef1 so s\u00e1nh th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u1eb7t s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, c\u00f2n v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u1ea1i soi r\u1ea5t k\u1ef9 v\u00e0o thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t. C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c thua k\u00e9m, n\u00f3ng ru\u1ed9t, s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 sinh ra, d\u00f9 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang \u0111i tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t nh\u1ecbp s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c nhau.<\/p>\n So s\u00e1nh k\u00e9o d\u00e0i l\u00e0m hao ph\u00fac v\u00ec n\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f3 an tr\u00fa trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. Khi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed lu\u00f4n \u1edf ch\u1ed7 \u201cgi\u00e1 nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta\u201d, th\u00ec nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111ang c\u00f3 s\u1ebd b\u1ecb xem nh\u1eb9. Ph\u00fac ph\u1ea7n v\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ee7, bi\u1ebft tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng, s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n m\u1ecfng \u0111i khi l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y thi\u1ebfu.<\/p>\n 3. Hay n\u00f3i v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00fang \u2013 sai, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u2013 m\u1ea5t<\/strong><\/p>\n C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t th\u00edch ph\u00e2n t\u00edch, \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1, m\u1ed5 x\u1ebb m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c cho th\u1eadt r\u1ea1ch r\u00f2i. Ai \u0111\u00fang, ai sai, ai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, ai m\u1ea5t, chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec \u0111\u00e1ng, chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng. Ban \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o, nh\u01b0ng v\u1ec1 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng tinh th\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c trong \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e1p \u00e1n r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n c\u00e0ng ph\u00e2n t\u00edch c\u00e0ng m\u1ec7t, c\u00e0ng c\u1ed1 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e0ng r\u1ed1i. Khi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t li\u00ean t\u1ee5c, n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng s\u1ebd b\u1ecb ti\u00eau hao r\u1ea5t nhanh, trong khi s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh an ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u00edt.<\/p>\n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a cho r\u1eb1ng ph\u00fac kh\u00f4ng n\u1eb1m \u1edf vi\u1ec7c l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng th\u1eafng l\u00fd, m\u00e0 n\u1eb1m \u1edf ch\u1ed7 gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m an. Qu\u00e1 ch\u1ea5p v\u00e0o \u0111\u00fang \u2013 sai khi\u1ebfn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ec5 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, d\u1ec5 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf. Ph\u00fac v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 hao \u0111i, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i do ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh, m\u00e0 do ch\u00ednh c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng qu\u00e1 n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1.<\/p>\n Ba vi\u1ec7c tr\u00ean kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u1ed7i l\u1edbn, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng khi\u1ebfn ai g\u1eb7p tai h\u1ecda ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c. Nh\u01b0ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 n\u01b0\u1edbc r\u00f2 r\u1ec9 ch\u1eadm, ph\u00fac kh\u00ed b\u1ecb b\u00e0o m\u00f2n t\u1eebng ch\u00fat m\u1ed9t m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra. \u0110\u1ebfn khi m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, l\u1eadn \u0111\u1eadn k\u00e9o d\u00e0i, h\u1ecd m\u1edbi th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng sao qu\u00e1 n\u1eb7ng.<\/p>\n \u0110i\u1ec3m chung c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m hao ph\u00fac n\u00e0y l\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn t\u00e2m kh\u00f4ng y\u00ean. Khi t\u00e2m kh\u00f4ng y\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f3 nh\u00ecn r\u00f5 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i, c\u0169ng kh\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n b\u1edbt than phi\u1ec1n, ng\u1eebng so s\u00e1nh v\u00e0 nh\u1eb9 tay h\u01a1n v\u1edbi \u0111\u00fang \u2013 sai, ph\u00fac kh\u00ed t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n quay l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n Ph\u00fac kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1ee9 c\u1ea7u xin m\u00e0 c\u00f3, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c qu\u00e1 l\u1edbn lao. \u0110\u00f4i khi, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac ba th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0y, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1eb9 h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 s\u1ed1ng x\u1ea5u, c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ea1i ai. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng c\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 sau, h\u1ecd c\u00e0ng th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, l\u1eadn \u0111\u1eadn, l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u m\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edfng \u00edt. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u201chao ph\u00fac m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng hay bi\u1ebft\u201d, b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c r\u1ea5t quen trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y. 1. 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